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The Oxpecker’s Lesson: Meditation, Prayer, and Faith in Harmony




The Oxpecker’s Lesson: Meditation, Prayer, and Faith in Harmony

By Kateb Nuri-Alim Shunnar


You ever find yourself looking at the wild world of nature and realizing there’s so much we can learn from it? I remember watching a nature documentary one day, and something about the oxpecker bird stuck with me. You’ve probably seen them they’re those little birds that hang out on the backs of rhinos or zebras, picking off ticks and other pests. But there’s more to it than just a bird getting a free meal. It’s a partnership, a kind of unspoken deal: the oxpecker eats, the rhino gets cleaned up. Simple, right?


Well, not exactly. That little bird’s got another job it acts like a lookout, warning the rhino about dangers the big guy can’t see coming. And trust me, with the rhino’s bad eyesight, it needs all the help it can get. This whole dynamic got me thinking about how this relationship mirrors something deeper in our own lives how meditation, prayer, and faith work together like the oxpecker and the rhino. Let me break it down.


So, first up, meditation. Picture the rhino, going about its day with who-knows-how-many ticks, bugs, and whatever else crawling on its back. It probably doesn’t even notice most of the time. That’s kind of like us, right? We move through life, carrying all these mental and emotional “parasites” stress, anxiety, doubts and half the time, we’re not even aware of the weight they add. That’s where meditation comes in. It’s like the oxpecker gently pecking away at all the stuff that’s irritating us, cleaning up the mess we didn’t realize was there.


Now, meditation isn’t some quick fix. Trust me, I’ve tried. Sitting still with your thoughts is no easy task. But just like the oxpecker takes its time clearing the rhino’s hide, meditation works gradually. You’ve got to be patient with it. I’ve had days where my mind feels like a crowded room thoughts buzzing around, demanding attention. But when I take a moment to just sit quietly, breathing deeply, it’s like those mental “ticks” start to fall away, one by one. It’s not always instant, but afterward, I always feel lighter, clearer like the weight of the world has lifted a little.


Then, there’s prayer. The oxpecker doesn’t just stick around for snack time; it’s also the rhino’s alarm system. The bird’s got sharp eyes and lets out a shrill cry when danger is nearby. Now, the rhino can’t see what’s coming, but it trusts that call. That’s what prayer is for us. We might not always know what’s lurking around the corner what’s coming down the road in life but through prayer, we tune in to guidance that’s sharper than our own senses. It’s like getting a heads-up from the universe, a warning that says, “Hey, you might want to watch out for this.”


There’ve been plenty of times in my life when I’ve felt like I was walking blind, unsure of what to do next. I’d pray, asking for clarity, and even though I didn’t always get an immediate answer, there was always some sign, some nudge in the right direction. Prayer isn’t just about asking for things; it’s about listening being open to the whispers that tell you when to move, when to pause, and when to change course. Just like the rhino trusts the oxpecker’s cry, we’ve got to trust what we hear in prayer, even when we can’t see the full picture ourselves.


And finally, we’ve got faith. This might be the trickiest one because faith is all about trusting without seeing. The rhino, despite being this massive, powerful animal, doesn’t have great vision. It relies on the oxpecker to help it navigate threats it can’t spot on its own. Faith works the same way for us. We move through life with our limited human understanding, but faith is what lets us trust in something bigger than ourselves. It’s believing that, even when we don’t have all the answers, there’s a force guiding us, keeping us safe, watching out for us.


I’ve had my fair share of moments where faith was all I had to lean on. Life can throw curveballs things you never see coming and it’s easy to feel lost in the chaos. But faith is what gets you through. It’s like driving in heavy fog you can’t see more than a few feet ahead, but you keep going, trusting that the road is still there. You might not see the whole path, but faith lets you move forward, step by step. It’s not about having everything figured out; it’s about believing that the answers will come, even if you can’t see them yet.


This connection between the oxpecker and the rhino is a perfect example of how meditation, prayer, and faith work together in our lives. Meditation clears out the junk, making room for clarity and peace. Prayer connects us with divine guidance, helping us stay alert to life’s challenges. And faith? Faith is what lets us move ahead, trusting that even when we can’t see, we’re being led in the right direction.


I remember one particularly tough period in my life. I felt stuck, confused, and honestly, a little hopeless. I didn’t know what to do or which way to turn. That’s when I decided to spend more time meditating, quieting my mind. After a while, I started to pray not for answers, but for peace. And slowly, a sense of calm came over me. I didn’t get all the solutions I wanted right away, but I got something more important: I found the faith to keep going, to trust that things would unfold in time. And they did.


Just like the rhino needs the oxpecker to survive and thrive, we need meditation, prayer, and faith to navigate the ups and downs of life. They work together to keep us grounded, alert, and hopeful, even when things feel uncertain. The natural world has a way of teaching us these lessons if we’re willing to listen. That tiny bird, perched on the back of a giant animal, reminds us that no matter how strong or capable we are, we still need helpvand that help is always there, if we take the time to notice it.


So, next time you’re feeling weighed down, overwhelmed, or unsure of what’s ahead, think of the oxpecker. Take a moment to meditate, clear your mind, and let go of the distractions. Turn to prayer, asking for guidance and then really listening for it. And most importantly, have faith. Trust that, just like the rhino, you’ve got a companion watching out for you, guiding you through whatever comes your way. The journey might not always be easy, but with these three practices meditation, prayer, and faith you’ll find your way, step by step.





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fatimarahim
Oct 16
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Kateb, Your connection to nature and the divine is profound I don’t often come across writing with this level of depth, and I’m honestly in awe. I came seeking immediate answers, but what I found was even more valuable: a renewed sense of faith to keep moving forward, to trust that things would come together when the time was right. And, just as you said, they did. Reading your reflection made me think about the symbiotic relationship between the rhino and the oxpecker. It’s a perfect reminder of how much we rely on meditation, prayer, and faith to navigate the unpredictable tides of life. These practices don’t just keep us grounded; they sharpen our awareness and renew our sense of…

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