Love in Action: Choosing to Show Up Every Day
By Kateb Nuri-Alim Shunnar.
So often, we forget that love is meant to be a verb, not just a noun. When we think of love as a noun, it feels like something we’re supposed to find, hold onto, and keep, like some kind of possession or trophy. But the truth is, love is a verb—an action we take, something we create, build, and nurture every single day. Love isn’t just any verb; it’s an action verb, and that’s how I try to live my life, even when it’s messy or hard.
I try to pour love into everything I do, especially my writing, because that’s how I know to express myself best. But I also try to show love in little, everyday ways—whether it’s through a text to check in, making time to listen, or just being present, even when I don’t have the perfect words to say. I do this because I’ve felt the love of my Creator so deeply. No matter how many mistakes I’ve made or how often I’ve fallen short, the Creator has never turned away or given me the cold shoulder. It’s a love that’s constant, forgiving, and patient—a love that I’m still learning to accept fully, even on days when I feel unworthy.
There are times when I feel overwhelmed by my own flaws and the weight of my responsibilities, when I wish I could do more or be more for the people I love. It’s in those moments that I try to remember the way my Creator loves me—without conditions or expectations, just pure and unwavering. If my Creator can do that for me, then I want to do my best to show that kind of love to others, too.
I’m not perfect, and I know I mess up more often than I’d like. There are days when I get caught up in my own head, when I’m tired, stressed, or just not feeling enough. But I keep trying, because love is about showing up, even when it’s hard. It’s about choosing to be there, to give your best, even when you’re not sure if it’s enough. Love is an ongoing effort, a commitment to keep building and nurturing something beautiful, no matter how many times it gets tested. And that’s what I want to be for you—for us. I’m learning that love isn’t just about grand gestures or perfect moments, but about the little ways we show up for each other, day in and day out. It’s in the apologies, the forgiveness, the quiet support, and the unwavering belief that we can get through anything together. I’m not always going to get it right, but I promise that my love will always be an action verb—a constant effort to grow, to learn, and to keep choosing you, over and over again.
If you’re feeling lost or like you’re not enough, know that you’re not alone. We all go through times when we question ourselves, when it feels like we’re just barely holding on. But it’s in those moments that we have to remember: love is a verb. It’s in the little things you do every day that make a difference, even when you can’t see it right away. Keep showing up. Keep trying. Even when you’re tired, even when you’re unsure, your efforts matter more than you know. Life can be messy, and love doesn’t always look perfect. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed; it’s okay to not have it all together. What matters most is that you keep going, keep choosing to love, and keep believing that your efforts are enough. You are enough, just as you are.
Trust that you are worthy of love, not just from others but from yourself, too. Give yourself grace on the hard days, and remember that it’s okay to ask for help or to lean on those who care about you. You’re doing your best, and that’s all anyone can ask for. We all stumble; we all have moments where we feel like we’re falling short. But every time you pick yourself up and try again, you’re showing courage. Every time you choose to act with love, you’re making a difference. Your journey is unique, and your story is still unfolding. Keep writing it with all the love and hope you have, because it’s yours, and it’s worth every effort you make.
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